Moth to a Flame
Moth to a Flame
(like a) /mɒθ tu ə fleɪm/
Meaning: Describes someone who is irresistibly and often dangerously attracted to something or someone, despite knowing it could lead to harm — just as moths are drawn to bright lights or flames that can burn or kill them.
Dialogue
- Sara: "Why do you keep going back to that toxic job? The boss treats everyone terribly."
- Mike: "I know it's bad for me, but the excitement and the paycheck draw me in."
- Sara: "You're like a moth to a flame — you can't resist even though it'll burn you eventually."
- Mike: "Yeah, you're right. Time to find something safer."
Etymology
The idiom "like a moth to a flame" (often shortened to "moth to a flame") originates from the observed behavior of moths being fatally attracted to bright lights or open flames at night. The full phrase dates back to at least the 17th century, with poetic uses appearing earlier (e.g., similar imagery in Shakespeare's works). It became a common idiom in English to describe self-destructive attraction.
Audience
When to use: Common in informal and formal conversations to describe irresistible but potentially harmful attractions — such as to dangerous people, bad habits, risky opportunities, or addictive behaviors. It's vivid and cautionary, widely used in everyday speech, writing, psychology, and literature.
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